It’s frighteningly easy for us to pray the wrong way about our problems. I don’t mean that there is a particular formula of words that we should say. It’s more to to do with our perspective. When I pray about the problems I face, am I focusing on the problem while I talk to God, or am I focusing on God while I talk about the problem?
It’s a question of focus really. A while ago, I embraced my middle-age and succumbed to varifocal glasses. (Actually, “embraced” probably isn’t quite the right word…. but hey, I got the glasses!) For any young things reading this, varifocal glasses are what you get when you get older and you find that you have to hold the page you are reading further and further away in order to get it vaguely into focus. Eventually you find that your arms aren’t long enough and you go to the opticians and they deal with the whole limb issue by charging you at least an arm, and probably a leg too, for some snazzy glasses where the prescription at the top is for distance and the prescription at the bottom is for reading. It explains why people my age who suddenly start wearing glasses also seem to move their heads around a lot, very slowly. We’re trying to get our peripheral vision sorted, which is a challenge with varifocals. My optician tried to convince me of the merits of varifocal contact lenses. These work on a different basis where your distance vision runs around the outside and your reading vision is in the middle. You choose which bit you are going to focus on. She described it to me as being a bit like looking through a window – you choose whether to focus on the glass in the window, or whatever is beyond the window.
And praying about our problems can be a bit like those varifocal contact lenses. When we bring a problem to the Lord in prayer, He doesn’t always remove it immediately. In fact, more often than not, the problem hangs around for a while so that God can teach us lessons about faith, persistence, patience and the like. The thing is, that it is so easy for us to focus on the problem, and talk to God about it, rather than focus on God and talk about the problem. I think there is a song which says “Don’t tell your God how big your mountain is, tell your mountain how big your God is.” I’m not sure that talking to our problems is going to do us much good, but it’s a good reminder to keep our focus on how great our God is, rather than how great our problem is.
I think of this as “Cape Town theology”. If you stand in downtown Cape Town, you will be surrounded by tall buildings. OK, nothing on the scale of Dubai or New York, but still pretty tall. In between the buildings, you might catch a glimpse of Table Mountain, but it would be easy to stand there and think “wow, these buildings are huge”. If you then hop in your car and head up to Bloubergstrand, you will be blown away by the traditional picture postcard view of Cape Town…
So, where exactly are those tall buildings? They are the tiny dots at the foot of the mountain. They are still there, but they seem so much less imposing when seen against the perspective of the mountain.
I needed reminding of all this because, yes, we are facing a few problems. Nothing life-threatening, unlike our Iraqi brothers and sisters, but a few bumps have appeared on our path. We are still a long way off having all our financial support in place, which makes it easy to start wondering if we are actually meant to be going anywhere at all. And in the meantime, we have decisions to make which have financial implications. Do we enrol the girls in school now to ensure that they have places? That would involve paying a non-returnable holding fee. Or do we wait and see. These kinds of questions go round in our heads and it is easy for us to take them to God in the nature of a child coming to show a parent something, and keeping their eyes firmly fixed on the thing they have found, whilst never actually looking up at the one they are talking to. In short, it is possible to talk to God without actually looking at Him. And not only possible, it is, as I said at the beginning, frighteningly easy. I need to stop looking at the window and look at the view, to stop looking at the tall buildings and see the enormous mountain, to stop looking at the problem and gaze on the God of all creation, who knows the end from the beginning and who set every star in its place. The problem won’t go away but the perspective will change. Psalm 113 reminds us:
Who is like the Lord our God, the One who sits enthroned on high, who stoops down to look on the heavens and the earth?
Our God doesn’t just stoop down to look on the earth. He is so mighty and so vast that He stoops to even look down on the heavens. The psalmist didn’t live in a modern city with massive light pollution. He had seen the amazing beauty of the night sky and he knew that God is way way bigger than even the heavens.
That was all a bit long-winded. Thanks for staying to the end. Now go off and re-focus, look at the size of our God and rejoice that He is more than “able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.” (Ephesians 3:20-21) And I will do the same.